At least you had the courage to confront the coward that hurt you. Heal yourself and let them go to ____. Be good to yourself and get whatever help you need to heal the best you can and then move on to better things. Don't let a mean person influence your remaining time on this earth. Rise about it.Proud of you for confronting them. The pic is so sad.
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Good for you girl. How brave of you to confront your abuser! Hold your head high and live a good life ~ prove all those words wrong!
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What in the world is wrong ? This girl was abused and trying to share with us to help get over this horrible nightmare. Hardly anyone posted suggestions or seemed to give a hoot. But someone posts a comment about BABY MAMA or HOW MUCH THEY MISS THIS PERSON....and everyone chimes in. What can we say to help this one woman to start healing ?????? She just wanted her abuser to say they were sorry.....That may never happen. So where does that leave her ? Any ideas ? I think the person who did this to you should be shot.
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I'm sorry. My ex physically and mentally abused me, and he won't admit it...and he tells everyone I'm the crazy one to cover his ass. Alot of my friends are friends with him too. Because he's the life of the party. He also is an abusive drunk. It's horrible really and he has scarred me. I'm trying...but it is the worst when they do not own up to it. I just try to take it one moment at a time literally. The hardest part is learning to love myself again. I'm so mad I put up with it. I don't speak to him anymore...that's a start, therapy, meditation, and be careful in relationships so you don't fall into an abusive pattern like I did. Feel free to write, I'll check back in on this secret!
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My ex verbally abused me too and chased me around with a knife. I finally got him to stop only by calling the police. They confiscated knives and guns from his car and gave them to me. I did go to counseling and eventually moved on. But it is hard and like the OP said, if they won't acknowledge it happened.........it doesn't stop hurting. Such cowards not to be able to even acknowledge what they did. Guess why we have to forgive ourselves since there is no way we can force words from an abuser. OP, I am so sorry this happened to you. My mother used to say "You can take a horse to water but you can't make them drink." This is true with so many things in life. Life isn't fair. We are going to be mistreated sometimes. And sometimes we will never get a word of acknowledgment. I hope you can move on. My thoughts are with you to create and enjoy the rest of your life with people that value you.
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words ARE SHARPER THAN KNIVES
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Yes and truly the emotional abuse is the worst!
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