Why would you ever stay...You are not trapped.Talk out. Go to a shelter if needed. Untrap your own self. Get out and distance as far as possible from this person. Accept responsibility for yourself even if it means hitting rock bottom and asking for help to get back up. People only do to you what you ALLOW them to do. Get out and move on.
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so leave him, come be with me. There are so many other choices out there and there are nice guys who are tired of finishing last. Find one, and put both of you first.
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this is America. how are you trapped? If it is for money reasons, look again at that whore comment.
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I'll trade you. I'd rather be a whore than a maid!
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is he married too?
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...I made a whore, once.....mebbe twice
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If that is a suitcase against the wall, you should pack it. And leave.
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3^ And in her five minutes of freedom, she decided to post on myuntoldsecrets! Talk about a diehard fan!
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Have you ever tried to relate these feelings to him or are you affraid of him? If you fear him get to a harbor house and get a restraining order.
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Get a job. Move out. Never look back.
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1^ It really can be that simple. This is exactly what I did. I stayed way too long because children were involved. I had so much guilt about breaking up the home even though things were really bad. We don't know the op's entire situation, so I don't think she should be judged so harshly. To the op...just take that first step, find a way to become self-sufficient. Once you take that step and get the ball rolling, you will be surprised to find it really isn't as hard to get away from him as you thought it would be. I wish you the best of luck.:)
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If you don't have kids, how are you trapped? Pack up and go and don't look back!
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That looks a lot like a hotel room. Nice one but still.
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Trapped you? No one trapped you except you. So if you look at it, you made you into a whore. Stop blaming other people for your problems. It's a true sign of weakness.
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Whore much?
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Have you ever thought it was againt her will, he might have a gun...maybe a sound proof basement.
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you are weak for staying and posting here idiot.
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Could it be that you charge for a blowjob?
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How about Virginia, there is a good man here who could really appreciate a great wife.
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GET OUT!
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he can only do to you what you allow him to do.
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K... I am all packed where to in Florida?
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^Wow...you are really easy aren't you?
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oh sure, Fl and not Virginia. sigh.
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Me likey whores
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No one trapped you. You permit it to continue. Deal with it, or continue to deserve what you get
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pack up, slip out, move to Florida with me !
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how many proposals does a girl need lol. Here is one more.
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Be strong and take this advice seriously...You are better off alone than with some insecure man that only controls you because he can. You mean as much to him as that whore he paid for the night before. Believe that. He has issues and whatever your reason for staying, it wont cure the man. Get a plan and leave this time.
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SEE !!! get packing and come to Florida !!
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