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My wife & I want to have a child, but I'm scared to death. I was raped & beaten as a child; so were my parents. They didn't know it happened to me too; will I?

My wife & I want to have a child, but I'm scared to death. I was raped & beaten as a child; so were my parents. They didn't know it happened to me too; will I?

 
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get counseling....
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how do you know this about your parents?
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only you can control whether you will or not. look deep in your heart, when you see a baby whats your first thought? when you see a young child throwing a terrible fit, whats your first knee jerk reaction? i was abused as a child, and shared ur same fear of having my own family, now i have a 4 yr old son, i love him more than life!
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Me thinks that your mother and father must be sister and brother. Possible rapist is good ol' grandpa. Gives new meaning to "All in the family", that is unless your family name is Cheekspreader? Do you and your parents run really, really slow?
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My parents knew about my abuse. I know they say that people who were abused are more likely to abuse but it literally makes me physically ill to think of harming a child.
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My statement was misunderstood. It happened by someone outside the family. when I finally told them what happened to me years later, I was surprised that it happened to them too. They didn't see the signs, knowing they were victims as well. I don't want it to happen to my child. I couldn't think of hurting a child!
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Man, you sound pretty F**ked up, no offense, but I seriously wouldn't suggest trying to raise a family until all your issues are dealt with, no sense in you maybe flipping out and needing to go to a state mental health facility and leaving your family with no means or anything... Honestly I wouldn't worry too much about you hurting your own offspring, I'd just worry that maybe you'd break down with all the stress of being a parent and have to go to a state mental health facilty
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I was sexually assaulted and I am here to tell you that my kids are NOT! You know how it happened to you.. Trust NOONE with them. Leve them NOWHERE!! it may sound extreme but my kids never had to experience what i did.
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All life is filled with pain. You can read on here almost every page has a post about someone getting raped. All you can do is be careful with your child, and teach them to talk to you about everything. My husband and I are in the same boat. We were both raped as children, and asked ourselves the same question. When you become afraid to live that is when you truly die.
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