2^ I agree with you 100%. Do not let your mother and her "family"'s way of thinking have any affect on your own. Kill them with kindness. <3
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ummmmm....just curious, which half is Persian?
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how far along is step sister?
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to the person above me - Dude you don't know the situation, so shut the hell up. How would you feel if your own mom paid for your STEP SIBLING's day of joy, but couldn't be bothered to fork over a dime for yours? You grow the f*** up, assh*** and think about that.
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^it is not your mom's responsibility to pay for your wedding, you are an adult. who knows maybe the your sister's father wanted her wedding paid for and they made an agreement....regardless it's not up to you to decide how your mother spends her own money. it may leave a sHiTty taste in your mouth, but you are now a grown AsS woman in charge of your own life so take some personal responsibility and focus on what's important, your marriage and new husband!!!
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Seriously ^ - I paid for my own wedding, as should every responsible adult. The apron strings DEFINITELY need to be cut in this situation.
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^right? the whole point of a wedding is that you are committing yourself to your one true love forever....not some FuCkEd up competition between you and your sister!!!
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All this time, my step siblings have never gotten to know me or my younger brother, because they're bigots, and feel that maybe if I didn't have 'such a screwed up' heritage, I wouldn't be the way I am (cancer free now, thank GOD not Allah, I was raised in the beautiful US of A, thank you.) Basically, a superiority thing.So, no, their invitations? Not only lost in the mail, but not even written. So thank you for your comments. I appreciate your opinions, but I'm sticking with my own.
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I am sorry for you, sincerely, that had to be painful and the only advice I have for you: Be a loving, giving and good person in spite of them. Smile in their face and know that is their problem and you are nothing like them. Focus on you and your direction, good luck and wishing you healing thoughts and happiness. :)
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i still say, you are an adult and in charge of your own life. if your mom is really that horrible then stop contacting her, PROBLEM SOLVED!!! also, for someone who you obviously dont like, i find it funny you would even want her involved financially with your wedding anyway....GET OVER IT, MOVE ON, FOCUS ON YOUR NEW HUSBAND!!!!
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I'll bet the invitations got lost in all that hair covering your armpits, or Allah forgive us, that seriously hairy nasty persian snatch of yours. Yikes!
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I think I would have done the same thing...And perhaps worse. (Bacon comes to mind.)Don't mind the nasty comments.
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^my comment wasn't nasty, it was realistic. is it shitty that her mom did this? of course it is! but rather than communicating how hurt she is to her mom, she does something passive aggressive like "forgetting" to mail her invitation which will only alienate her further from her family. so the choice is your op, get over it and move on like an adult, or continue to engage dis-functionally with your family!!!
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Hi all - OP here. I expected most of the mean comments, and I understand that if you don't know where I'm coming from, it's understandable. Continued ======>
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Basically, this is the last straw. My mother is white. She hates middle eastern people, since the marriage to my now deceased father fell apart, and I bore the brunt of this issue with my years younger brother. When she met my step father, he had two adorable blond hair, blue eye'd kids, whom she has chosen over me and my sibling (forgetting birthdays, abandoning him and leaving him for me to raise, stealing my credit and bank cards to buy things for herself and my step siblings leaving me 10K in debt, etc.. ) =========>Continued
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The last time, she chose them over me, I was in the hospital with a large cancerous tumor being removed. I had asked her to be there for me. She said she was busy... because my step brother needed a new sheet set, and she just had to purchase it for him for his birthday the next week. She then asked me for the money for it. ====>Continued
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