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I've been in an affair with a married man for 10 1/2 years. He is getting divorced. I always knew we would be together in the end.

I've been in an affair with a married man for 10 1/2 years. He is getting divorced. I always knew we would be together in the end.

 
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maybe the guy is getting a divorce cus it's just not working anymore....how stupid. if he was doing it for her he would have did it a long time ago. can anyone around be positive about love?
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^amen, finally someone with a positive outlook. OP...so, did he say he would commit to you?
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Good for you. Now that you are aware that he had an affair, how will you know he will forever be faithful to you? Wait until he has his freedom. Maybe all will be well with you. But you have a surprize coming when you settle into routine and the typical moments of bordom that accompanies all relationships. When the arguing begins, his eyes will be casting their way toward other women. Hold on for the ride.
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^^^Boy, isn't that the truth? I have been there.
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oh great, another hole with a heart beat lmao!!!
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it can work, i heard this story before. after 10 years i am sure there won't be any arguing, i bet you too already got all that out? these peeps are just jealous, that's all. maybe i will hold on too. i love hime so, he feels like my soulmate.
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And what a prize of a "man" you're getting!
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i can't let go, no matter how hard i try. well i don't try that hard cus i don't want too. i want to settle in a boring routine with you, eating, sleeping, and making love and not having too worry. i feel i could look into your eyes forever, they have a powerful effect on me, one i never experienced. time to run now.
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i am starting to hate him truly hate him...this is all making me come to my senses. he probably wrote some of this shit for me to hate him. well happy sweetest day. i'm no sweetie just a dumb tramp.
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together in the end? are you finally giving him anal?
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May his dick go limp forever and may he be deathly allergic to Viagra! An affair for 10 1/2 years? Your getting ready to become the new "ball and chain" while he searches for a new slide line.
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Just wait. Your time is coming when he will do the same to you. 1st marriages end 50% of the time. 2nd marriages in 75% of the time. It increases exponentially when an affair is involved. Marry him. You will not make it together.
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^Actually remarriages where both partners have been divorced and both have had children are more successful.
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So stupid some of you are.
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^^^3 up. Check the research. Overall, second marriages end 75% of the time.
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^Marriages to the person you cheated with end 90% of the time. The other 10% they suck bad!
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^^^ You've got that right!
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3^These two are their own ugly baggage. They deserve one another after all.
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without knowing the whole situation, which we don't, you people jump the gun. this woman has known him for over 10 years for gods sake. maybe his wife has a boyfriend, maybe they stayed together for kids. who knows, true love will prevail amongst us. good luck to the op, please give us an update.
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^You're right. Nobody knows the whole story.Perhaps the guy's wife thought true love would prevail too!
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Whore!!!
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how do we know that the poster is a woman?
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IDIOT! Who wants to be with a man who cheated on his wife and strung you along for 10 and a half years? You deserve him. He'll be stepping out on you in no time. Matter of fact he already has.
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hahahaha u just keep thinking that~! hahaaaaa
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2^ me too
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Is he divorcing her to be with you, or one of the other women he's having an affair with?
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^^^Sure we can. But only when it makes sense and does not have the experience of millions of these situations that never worked out. It is common sense that a man or woman who have f***ed around on a spouse is jaded. That baggage will follow them forever.
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Boy are you dumb.
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Well I hope he cheats on you so you know how it feels like.
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