Honestly, if you love your wife and want to keep your marriage, than just stop. Our society has become plagued with the believe that if something feels good, than just do it, and f@ck anyone who doesn't agree. But that mindset definitely doesn't make for a healthy relationship, and most people who are in lasting, healthy marriages, have to give up a few things for the other. Plus, crossdressing is hopefully not your entire identity, so give it up, and realize you won't die without it.
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Dude i hope they bury you in a dress more power to ya ... CLaim your scottish and get u a nice plaid skirt
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Do whatever you want! If cross-dressing makes you happy, then go for it. If you're in your 50s I can assume you've been married for a while. If she can't accept your quirks by now... well maybe it's time to make a change in your life. But seriously, you're half a century old and you haven't figured out how to piece together a coherent sentence?
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As a wife who would be a little wierded out if her hubby told her he liked to xdress, I say do it. As long as my hubby didn't ask me to pretend to be overjoyed at his hobby, then we'd be cool. I don't ask him to pretend to enjoy chick flicks. :)
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^My parents apparently cares a great deal. :(
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Do what you like. Who cares?
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As long as you are both freaky together then no harm no fuzz... She needs to understand that you need this fulfilled.. I'm a married woman and I would care less if it was me... Let your freak flag fly!!!
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you have three choices: either get rid of her and do what you want, or go behind her back and do what you want, or do what you want right in front of her and suffer her wrath. regardless YOU have to make a choice, or else be miserable.
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Let her know that you are going to do it, but don't it when she is around. Like someone else said, send her to bingo or whatever, and have your fun until she gets back.
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Why don't you just settle for wearing panties under your jeans, and let it go at that?
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Do whatever you want! If cross-dressing makes you happy, then go for it. If you're in your 50s I can assume you've been married for a while. If she can't accept your quirks by now... well maybe it's time to make a change in your life. But seriously, you're half a century old and you haven't figured out how to piece together a coherent sentence
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I'm a whole different guy than the OP and I say I love you two for your thoughts on this. My wife lets me, but she doesn't care for it too much unless I'm pleasing myself in a pair of panties...than she gets kinda hot, but she doesn't like the idea of me in much more than that. Go be yourself OP, otherwise life ain't worth living!
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^ To the lady on top of me. i wrote the 2nd comment from the top and I must say that you and I both see eye to eye!! I also think it would be kinds fun... definitely freaky and I love that!!! LOL
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i say, let her know that this is important to you, and that you're going to do it whether she likes it or not - if she loves you, she'll keep her comments to herself, or go bingo or something when you're dressing! as a married woman, i have to say - I think it'd be kind of fun... maybe that's naive, but still, do what makes you feel good. she'll accept it or she won't, but at least then you make her problem hers to deal with, and not yours to suffer.
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do what makes you happy
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Damn, finally a secret! not this whiny lover's lament crap.
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What you really want is to get f***ed up the ass because your daddy sold your ass on the corner when you were little, and you miss it.
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