Leave. Life is too short. He lies. He won't die.
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This is the ultimate ultimatum of a controlling, emotionally abusive person. It will only get worse if you stay with him.
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haul ass girl...this dude is a neurotic clown !!
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sorta reminds me of that old country song...." If you leave me i'll kill muhself....if you dont, i'll kill yeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwww !!
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i just got out of this same situation.never been happier, and i dont care what he does to himself. quit thinking abt other people and be selfish!
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i agree, life IS too short to stay in a situation like this. whatever he does after you go is his problem, not yours!
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Go get help from your local women's refuge or Google "signs of abuse" online. This will help to clarify what is really going on and you will probably find that the abuse is much worse than you thought. I just filed for divorce from my emotionally/verbally abusive husband, and it was the best decision I have ever made. My children are no longer subjected to all the anger and ugliness in the home, and I am finally happy again (which in turn, makes my kids feel happy and safe again).
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Leave him, and let him "die!" This a tool abusers use to control their victims! Pack up and take off! Time to do some living!
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good for you....got out of that clusterf*** !
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^ finally a comment with real meaning
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Controlling people (male and female) are often desperate, abusive and have no self-esteem. You can't help them. They need professional help. Even then most of them don't admit THEY are the problem--it is YOU who is hurting them. Run fast and run far.
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you may possibly still love him, but you surely dont like him.............go while you have your health !!
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i just got out of this same situation.never been happier, and i dont care what he does to himself. quit thinking abt other people and be selfish!
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He's already dead. Draw an X on his forehead while he's asleep.
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^Thank you, Reverend James! ;)
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Leave. If he does, you can bet the world will be better off.
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Dude, you need to get the f*** out of that relationship
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Oh honey... I sooo feel for you. I was and am in the exact same situation. My sons father is emotionally/physically abusive but hid it from me until he had me secluded 2000 miles away in oklahoma where hes from. When I left he said he was going to kill himself. He didnt. And when tyhat didnt work he moved on to threatening to kill me and disappear with our son. Run away fast and get a restraining order. If they deny it go back the second he pulls something. Mine just expired off after three years.... they wont grant another and hes still looking for me. He just doesnt know where to look so far. Run as fast as you can!
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^ Oh and I forgot to add... in the very slim likelihood that his threat has any real value... YOU ARE NOT accountable for his actions. Hes made you hurt long enough.
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My ex tried to pull the same thing with me...threatened suicide if I didn't stay and marry him. I told him to go for it...I couldn't handle being abused any longer. Then, after calling his bluff, he told me he was going to find some other "cunt" to marry and knock up...and that is exactly what he did. Now they're all unemployed living with his mother and brother in her two bedroom apartment.
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