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My mom made me define the "touching" that my stepdad did 10 yrs ago. I'm "over it" but she's so hurt, talking about divorce. I'm so sad for her.

My mom made me define the "touching" that my stepdad did 10 yrs ago. I'm "over it" but she's so hurt, talking about divorce. I'm so sad for her.

 
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Are you sure you're over it? Burying it doesn't mean it's not still there. Maybe you and your mom should talk to a therapist together? There's no shame in that, and it could make your relationship much stronger.
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um ya she should divorce him!
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some people are stronger than others. I got over it too and some people just expect you to lose it or something. i dealt with it then, i deal with it now, no biggie. good luck w. your mom
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yeah if my husband molested my kid i would end it too...sick in the head does not go away on it's own!
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Divorce? Are you shittin me? How about a bullet to the head!! Better yet, send the bastard to jail and let those guys deal with him in their own special way. If that happened more often, there would be less sexual abuse of children.
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I don't really think there is another option... Don't be sad be Glad that she is no longer next to a sick individual. Byt the way chances are you are not hisd only victim
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Sounds like your mom didn't know the full truth (or didn't want to know) back then, and now she is ready to except the details so that she can leave that jerk. You may not want to rehash the past, but do so for your moms sake and so that you can have some final "closure". Good luck to u.
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But did he spuz?
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shit smell will give your esteem fits
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How old were you when this happened?
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I touch you deep inside.
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Oh my gosh hon that is so sad. Now what's for supper bitcch?
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yOU MAY BE THROUGH WITH THE PAST, BUT THE PAST AIN'T THROUGH WITH YOU.
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So get a hammer and touch step-daddy in the dick. All will be well with the land. I think I might do that to the guy who molested me...if ever given the chance that is.
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If I were your mother I would kill him. Seriously.
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YOU SHOULD HAVE SPOKE THE HELL UP 10 YEARS AGO!
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wake up people she is LYING!!!!
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why dont you define the touching to us since you brought it up
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if he molested you, he most likely has done other little girls too. He should be locked up to keep everyone else safe.
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I think she made it up. Another post by her said how she was having self esteem problems because she had a fat ass and smelled like shit.
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Your step father should have his ball cut off.
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dont feel responsible for this, he was the adult who did something wrong, not you!
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I'm the OP. I know it wasn't my fault and what not... I just feel terrible for her situation. It was dealt with back then, I guess she thought it was a one time thing. It never happened after she found out. I feel horrible because she isn't in a good place for this. Ugh.
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then you should have lied.
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It never should have happend in the first place, he is not going to stop with just you, he is sick in the head and he should be in JAIL. Are you willing to put your kids in danger?
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^^^there is a good chance that she suspects he is still molesting children which is why she asked you about the details. i know it hurts to see your mom in pain but she deserves to know the whole truth. she is an adult and has the right to deal with it!!!
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