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We got into this life-style for fun and because we trust each other. But, I'm falling for him and I know he feels it too.

We got into this life-style for fun and because we trust each other. But, I'm falling for him and I know he feels it too.

 
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damn...that sucks...
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I know the feeling.. i could have wrote this myself...neither of us want to admit it..good luck with that
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only problem is, that it may happen again if you continue the style with the next guy....could become a cycle...
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If you trust eachother, tell him your love interest.
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no, I am married to one guy and we are in an open relationship with another married couple. It's my lover who I am falling for.
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ha ha, that's what you get. f***ing whores.
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yeah been there done that endeded up getting divorced to be with the new guy
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Make sure that it is love that you feel, not just infatuation. If you do something drastic and realize months or years down the road, then your screwed (more than literally). There is no repairing that.
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Marriage should be entirely abolished. It's the cause of more pain than anything else. Marriage laws were designed to restrict women's sexual activity and force men to stay with a woman in case she gets pregnant. Good thing I got a vasectomy.
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Why are people so hateful? I'm in a very similar situation..... I hope things work out for you.
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Polyamory is a very interesting subject to read up on. Maybe that might help. I assume you are in a swinger lifestyle
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Marriage is for the sake of the children.
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This has happened to me. Lucky for me I have the greatest husband and can openly discuss it with him.
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Why? Because we aren't a good Christian couple who cheat on each other? Would it be better if I was going behind his back and having sex or him doing the same like most married couples?
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You are experiencing the "newness". Eventually you will want someone besides the new guy, too.
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How would you feel if your husband had the same feelings for the other lady. Think about that! Yall could just swap it out and call it even? Then you and your new lover can find a new couple to have orgies and maybe you'll get your happily ever after.... *pukes*
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Crazy b****. Keep telling yourself: swinging is a "lifestyle". Delusional loser.
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Do women fall in love with everyone that screws them?
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I left my husband to be with the man I loved... after months of 'the lifestyle'. I am more in love than I have ever known but I realize now that it may have been just a catalyst to the inevitable.
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